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Magazine of The Compassionate Friends

Autumn - 2004

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We Need Not Walk Alone®

CONTENTS Autumn 2004

Features

TCF 27th National Conference in Hollywood By Cathy Seehuetter
Many people those uninitiated in "The Club", often wonder why someone would go back time and again.  They pose questions such as, "Isn't it heart wrenchingly sad?" and "Why would you want to surround yourself with all those bereaved people, year after year?"  However, nearly everyone who has attended a TCF national conference knows the answers to those questions:...

Building a New Me By Aaron Pueschel
Where do people like me go for help?  Who puts us broken people back together again?  My family and I were deeply hurting over Carl.  Like Humpty Dumpty, I knew I couldn't put myself back together again - at least not without a lot of help.  "Some Major Reassemby Required" should have been stamped on my forehead.

Making a Difference: A program in Kehndra's Memory: Stop the Violence!
Losing a loved one to violence is very different from a natural death loss.  In addition to the fact that the pain, mourning, and healing are different, trying to find meaning in the randomness of traumatic death can present a powerful challenge.

Grief and Time By Michael Woodford
I guess I've finally reached the status of "experienced" or "seasoned" griever.  I'm not sure exactly when the transition happened, but it seems to have crept up on me unawares.

Surviving Tragedy, Rediscovering Joy By Jeff Zhorne, CGC
Recovery provides the correct tools.  The result is being able to cherish fond memories of loved ones.  Clearing out the "furballs" of unresolved grief unblocks relationships and helps us risk intimacy again and find freedom to make healthy choices.

Letters from a Place of Healing and Peace

Worldwide Candle Lighting By Wayne Loder
The Worldwide Candle Lighting gives bereaved families everywhere the opportunity to remember their child . . . that their light may always shine!

For Brothers & Sisters
Remembering Jonathon By Jason Gabriel
...Although I find some comfort in knowing that Jon was a hero in his short life, giving inspiration to everyone who hears his story, there is still that hole--that hole that will never be filled.

Death By Alexander M. French
My saying is: "Live it up." Live every day as if it were your last, because I know from experience, it very well could be.

Ask Dr. Paulson

Departments

From the Exec's Desk: ...By Pat Loder 

Friends, Caring and Sharing
TCF's in-house newsletter for chapter leaders and steering committee members is incorporated here. Many items will be of interest to both membership and friends of the organization.

TCF Patrons

Poetry

It's Okay By Rob Anderson

On a Night in December By Genesse Bourdeau Gentry

Dragonfly By Mona Follis

 

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